Child Custody Number One Reason For Court Appearances According To Divorce Lawyer NY
According to a divorce lawyer NY, the number one reason couples go to court to contest a divorce is over custody of their children and second reason would be for the division of property or money – they are tied for second place. Although it is unfortunate, divorce is a necessary part of many people’s lives for one reason or another – infidelity, abuse or other personal problems pull once loving couples apart.
In accordance with the latest divorce statistics, between 40 and 50 percent of first-time marriages in the United States end in divorce; the odds are even worse for those who try it a second time: second marriages fail at a rate of 60-67 percent and third marriages fail at a whopping 73-74 percent.
Forty or fifty years ago, it would have been unheard of to have a prenuptial agreement before getting married because people thought they would be staying together as a married couple forever. Even if something went wrong with the marriage, couples stayed together for the sake of the children who studies have shown to be more damaging to children then a divorce.
Most attorneys will give their clients advice to file for a separation agreement NYC before proceeding with a divorce so that the couple can work out their differences themselves so that a judge doesn’t have to decide who gets what, especially their children. An attorney could draw up a separation agreement between two married adults and in the eyes of the law that would constitute as a temporary divorce agreement because separated by law decree is a divorce – mensa et thora [from bed and board]; the two people or ‘parties’ are forbidden to live together, according to the law. A legal separation could be the first step to a new life, one without pain and suffering and certainly one with less stress. However some people choose to remain living together for financial reasons or because of the children, even though they are legally separated or divorced and there is nothing the law can do about it. The couple could claim a ‘trail reconciliation’ but there is surely not going to be any police coming to their door over this unless there is a good reason.



